1) Switch on the CD player and play the
love songs that both of you fell in love with or the songs that
you used to sing to him. If both of you have a particular "love
song" that will turn him on, play it while making love. But make
sure the CD goes on playing slow sentimental love numbers. The sound
of music can really make you feel in the mood and passionately in
love. It is also a reinforcement on why you married him/her in the
first place.
2) For the woman, wear a scantly dress that signifies
you want to make love.
3) For the woman: Also wear the colours like
blue is for "ready" and red is for "not tonight darling, I'm having
a headache". A full naked body is not sexy. "Half naked" is sexy
to a man's mind. Do that and charm him or walk around in the room
half naked if you can.
4) For the man: Just wrap around in a clean towel.
5) Bath first before making love.
6) Light up an aromatherapy oil burner with "rose
and sandlewood" incense. The rose will bring the scent of love in
his eyes and also make him more romantic. This also enhances the
whole room. The sandlewood incense will calm all nerves hence making
both of you rather relaxed and in the mood for making love.
7) When in bed, kiss and touch each other. Remember
that stroking each other is very important. A woman loves to be
touched only by someone she really loves.
8) Extend the foreplay as long as you can as
a woman will take twice the time to be sexually aroused.
9) When making love, live for that moment. It
is "THAT" moment that a child is created.
10) After making love, stay in bed a little while
longer to talk to each other about anything and especially about
the hope for a brighter future. This is the time to communicate
with "one heart". Most of the time, we speak of our daily needs
but not our emotional or spiritual needs. So this is the moment
and treasure it.
11) When making love, as a woman make sure you
make the man feel high.
12) When making love, it is perfectly normal
if the woman sometimes cannot come.
13) It is perfectly alright to have oral love
making as it brings out the other senses in the other parts of the
body. Hence your body will become more sensitive. You may want to
add real vanilla ice cream for more kick.
14) Do not quarrel or make nasty comments about
his love making for he might not know how to stroke a woman. This
sort of husband is trust worthy though.
15) Tell your husband your preferences in bed
- which position, what type - "dog style", "porcupine side entry",
"top gun" etc so that he will learn how to stroke you in future.
16) It is also preferred to make love "raw" that
is without any condoms. Energies are transmitted best during that
moment. So if that lady has very good luck, you will soon have extremely
good luck too as her energies are passed on to you when both of
you make love. But if that lady you make love to, looks pale and
sickly, then you may have bad luck the next day. So feel her "romantic
aura".
17) Love is what makes the world go round. Return
love to your husband with love in your mind and with your eyes of
compassion always. As a wife, always remember this and you will
have a very happy marriage.
18) Every woman has her own G-point, find it
and make her extremely sexually active in bed. You will enjoy this.
19) Try making love anywhere even in a small
car or in a park or kitchen or in the bathroom. You will find that
on a bed is the best !
20) Always remember that making love is the highest
form of expression and is usually made between a husband and a wife.
Don't forget to tell her so and give her 10 good reasons why you
wanted to marry her in the first place. All women will love this
as women tends to be more sensitive and emotional. If she's a virgin,
watch for that "red spot'.
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