1) Do not complain. If your spouse complain,
simply listen to him. Allow him to speak his mind while you should
not complain at the same time. Listening is a skill. Do that ! Remember
to listen as it is an art.
2) To enhance love and romance : For fengshui
purposes, place a loving pair of ducks or double happiness signs
all over the house to ensure loving kindness all the time between
you and your spouse.
3) Be sensitive to her needs. Most men are more
concerned about their own needs and tend to neglect their wives'
need. Pay attention to her needs. She may just want you to listen
to her. So listen. And be sensitive.
4) When a woman gets angry, she would not say
why but expect you to know. So pretend you know and apologies. Do
not keep quiet and have a "cold war" for longer than two hours.
It is bad chi. Just say sorry and all will be well.
5) Be faithful. Being faithful is one of the
key factor that can keep a marriage still going and ensure that
you always have good luck !
6) Be understanding. Learn to understand each
other better. Put yourself in his or her shoes and learn to look
at things from his or her angle and walk around them.
7) Do not be stubborn: A lot of couples are stubborn
in their own thinking and hence causes them to have frequent disagreements.
Well, if only one gives way, then all will be well. So please give
way and let the man win.
8) Be sensitive to each other's needs: Try to
learn to be sensitive to a lady. Ladies simply love it when a man
cares for her a lot while those men who are so cold or like a wood
seldom wins a lady's heart.
9) Give respect to his parents: It is important
as daughters-in-law to give due respect to to his parents and vice
versa so please help them when you can or simply listen to their
advices for they mean well for you.
10) When speaking to your spouse, be polite:
Always remember that we tend to take each other for granted too
much that we forget that our spouses can get hurt by our words.
So learn to be polite with him.
11) When he wants to make love, give in to him:
even if you are rather tired. A man's sexual needs are very different
from a woman. I suppose you would rather satisfy him than to allow
other women to do so. So do not use the "tit for tat" tactic because
that would cause him to go astray.
12) When he strokes you, stroke him back and
show him your love and concern as he needs it.
13) It's the little things you do for him that
makes him feel you are the most wonderful person in the world !
Try that ! It works wonders !
14) Listen to the unspoken words of love: Some
man are romantic while some are terribly insensitive and don't bother.
Still as a wife you should learn to share with him his passion even
if it is football. Learn to love football and smile at his bad habits.
Have compassion for his weakness and you will be a lot happier.
15) Allow her to do whatever she wants
: Women tend to appreciate her husband better than a man appreciating
his wife.
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